National Eat Pussy Day

Another Celebration in June: National Eat Pussy Day

While the LGBTQ parade was in full swing, there was a special day in June when we celebrated National Eat Pussy Day on the 24th.

Mens and womens attitudes towards oral sex

Research shows that men are more likely to find giving oral sex "very pleasurable" compared to women. A significant 52 percent of men reported this, while only 28 percent of women did. These findings may provide reassurance to women who feel hesitant about asking their partners to engage in oral sex. It underscores the importance of discussing gendered norms for sexual behavior, particularly with young people, and promoting information that enhances pleasure. By addressing these topics openly and providing knowledge on pleasure, individuals can have more fulfilling and satisfying sexual experiences, breaking away from societal stereotypes and fostering healthier relationships.

Reasons for men give head to their partner

man giving head to his woman

Enhanced Pleasure

The act of giving oral sex extends the duration of sexual pleasure beyond the relatively short duration of penetration. This is not just a subjective observation but is supported by actual research, including statistics on which regions tend to last longer in bed. By dedicating time solely to your pleasure, a man increases his chances of engaging in marathon sex, surpassing the brevity of a commercial break.

Shared Climax

Sex should not be viewed as a race to reach orgasm, where men consistently emerge as winners. Instead, it should be approached as a collaborative endeavor—a team sport. By arousing and stimulating you before the main event, the likelihood of experiencing simultaneous climax is heightened. Together, both partners can cross the finish line, reveling in the satisfaction of shared pleasure.

Reduced Performance Pressure

While it may seem unconventional, men often reach orgasm relatively quickly after the buildup of foreplay and penetration. Conversely, women typically require more time, and the pressure to delay ejaculation builds up. Engaging in oral sex prepares and brings a woman closer to climax, reducing the burden of performance pressure. This, in turn, increases the chances of achieving mutual satisfaction and pleasure.

Aroused Masculinity

Men derive great pleasure from witnessing a woman moan and writhe in ecstasy, and oral stimulation caters precisely to that desire. The focus on the clitoris, often referred to as the C-spot, provides maximum attention and can drive women wild when touched or caressed skillfully. The ability to fondle her breasts during this act further intensifies her arousal. The sounds, scents, movements, and overall pleasure she experiences create a sense of empowerment, making a man feel like a sexual deity. 

Reasons for men do not give head to their partner

man stops giving head to his woman

Hygiene Concerns

The primary reason men may hesitate to perform oral sex is related to hygiene. If there are issues with the appearance, smell, or taste of the vagina, men will be reluctant to engage orally. In fact, in a survey we conducted, approximately 95 percent of men cited "odour" as the most significant dealbreaker for oral sex.

Lack of Reciprocity

Another common reason men may decline to perform oral sex is if they feel it is not reciprocated. If their partner is unwilling to provide oral pleasure in return, men may be less inclined to engage in the act themselves. Many men highly value receiving oral sex, and the absence of reciprocity can affect their willingness to provide it.

Intimacy and Connection

The level of intimacy and connection with a partner plays a significant role in a man's willingness to perform oral sex. Some men may be hesitant to engage in oral sex with someone they have just met or with whom they do not feel a strong emotional bond. Additionally, personal taste can also influence their decision.

Perceived Lack of Attractiveness

Although less common, a man's level of attraction to his partner can impact his willingness to perform oral sex. Men are visual creatures, and if they do not feel sexually attracted to their partner, it may affect their motivation to please them. If a man repeatedly declines oral sex, it could be a sign that he does not find the partner attractive enough. Oral sex is an act of selflessness, requiring a man who prioritizes their partner's pleasure.

Misinterpretation of Partner's Preferences

There is a perception among some men that their partners may not enjoy receiving oral sex from them. This can arise from various factors, including personal insecurities or miscommunication of desires. In some cases, men may mistakenly believe that their partner is not enthusiastic about receiving oral pleasure, which can create hesitation or reluctance. It's important for partners to openly discuss their preferences and desires to ensure that both individuals are comfortable and fully engaged in the experience. Clear communication and understanding can help address any misconceptions and create a more pleasurable and satisfying sexual connection.

Then, Do You Like It?

Exploring Personal Pleasure

Explore pleasure by yourself

Misinterpretation of preferences in sexual experiences can hinder the overall satisfaction and pleasure for both partners. It is crucial for women to take an active role in understanding and exploring their own desires. By embracing self-exploration, women can gain a deeper understanding of what brings them pleasure and confidently communicate their preferences to their partners. Exploring one's own body through self-stimulation can help women discover their unique erogenous zones, preferences for oral stimulation, and other forms of pleasurable touch. This self-discovery empowers women to provide their partners with clear guidance, ensuring a more fulfilling and enjoyable sexual experience for both individuals.

Enhancing Pleasure through Suction Vibrators

Loli's Nook Suction Vibrators

One innovative tool that women can consider incorporating into their exploration is a suction vibrator. These devices are designed to provide targeted stimulation to the clitoral area, mimicking the sensation of oral sex. Suction vibrators use gentle pulsations and suction technology to create a unique and pleasurable experience. They offer a range of intensity settings, allowing women to customize the level of stimulation according to their preferences. By incorporating suction vibrators into their self-exploration and intimate moments with their partners, women can enhance their sexual pleasure and potentially discover new levels of satisfaction. However, it is important to remember that every individual is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. Open communication, experimentation, and consent are key when introducing new tools or techniques into one's sexual repertoire.

Remember, sexual exploration and pleasure are deeply personal experiences. By encouraging women to explore their own desires and introducing innovative tools like suction vibrators, we can promote a more fulfilling and enjoyable sexual journey for everyone involved.

If you find you like it, go ask for it.

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